Your friends give you the advice you want to hear. I give the advice you should hear.

Finding a good partner is hard enough without wondering what he or she is thinking!

If you think you are the only one dealing with your problems, you are wrong.

Asking these questions helps all of us while we are on our journey finding the man or woman of our dreams!

My friends are always asking me for advice, and I haven’t been to lunch with a friend without hearing what Mr. or Mrs. Wrong did this time. I am ready to share my thoughts.

I have sure had enough of my own problems in the past I can relate to.

If you want to share your relationship problems with me and read my response in the next issue email me at: [email protected].

Where do you meet attractive guys in Wichita Falls that’s not in a bar scene?

Good question lonely girl!

I have been asking myself the same question.

Let me give you a few places where I have actually seen an attractive man in Wichita Falls.

First of all, the Wellness Center during the mid-day  (I assume because they are getting their beauty rest early in the morning).

Second, I have spotted a few waiters at some popular restaurants around town.

Hopefully you can get them as your waiter.

You can tell if they are hard workers and you can see how good a listener he is when he takes your order.

WIN!!

Lastly I’ve met attractive men in my core classes.

Also take note that these attractive ones are usually on the football team.

GO MSU FOOTBALL!

Also please do not meet guys at a bar that you want to seriously date.

Every confident woman knows that guys go to bars not to find the love of their life, but to smash and trash.

If you are looking for Mr. Right in Wichita Falls, good luck lonely girl, because your guess is as good as mine.

When is the right time to stay over at a guys for the first time?

I actually have three examples for your question delivery girl.

My first example is of a girl who went home with a guy at a bar and slept over.

They smashed and she was trashed (literally and physically).

He took her number the next morning when she left. Good news right?

Wrong!

You are officially his go-to late-night take-out order.

He will call, but only when he didn’t meet another girl that night.

Example two, the girl goes over the guys house and sleeps with him, then she gets up, gets dressed, and gets out before he even has time to get out of the bathroom.

BOOM!

She just blew this guy’s mind.

She just smashed and trashed him.

The results of this situation are better than the first example.

The girl ended up hearing from the guy and they dated for a few months, but it wasn’t serious.

She had already given “it” up, there was nothing left for the guy to get.

My third example isn’t the advice we always follow but its good.

Example three is the girl that doesn’t sleep with her guy until they are both ready.

Until that really epic moment, (and you will know when that is) when you both want “it.”

Never sleep with a guy on the first night for sure.

That almost never works out!

Now if you don’t like the guy or you are just rebounding, example one and two will work.

I just suggest example two because guy’s rooms aren’t the cleanest places in the world.

A guy will hook up with me when I go out but not hook up with me when we are sober, why?

Dear Drunken Hookup, did you sleep with him on the first night?

Does he text you after 9 p.m. to “hang out” at his place? Do you always go to his place to “hang out”? If you answered yes to these questions you need to stop catering to him! If you want any chance of having a relationship that doesn’t involve drunken hook ups, you have to revamp yourself and get it together!

Stop sleeping with him when he texts you!

Delete his number, block him on Facebook and delete him from your mind.

You doing these things will get him wondering about you and why you aren’t talking to him anymore. If he likes you as more than a hook up then he will let you know!

You are better than this and you deserve better than this! You are smart, nice, and beautiful.

A guy that deserves you will want to see you more than just between the hours of 9 p.m.-2 a.m.

You go girl!